plz guyzzz help me..!!!

Question

I have a friend(mr.x) who was very close to me once..we use to share everything tit bit..then one day he confessed that he has feelings for me..but I didnt have any feelings for me..so I didn't except his proposal...but I made it clear to not keep any hopes..then also we kept talking..but slowly we distant..like it was now very formal..hi hello WYD this type of conversation...then I made a boyfriend..but I didn't share it with mr.x ..coz I was thinking what he shall think and behave...3-4 months before we(mr.x and me) had a fight ...and he confessed still he has feelings for me..and whatever out of courtesy I was doing for me( like writing practical,sharing notes)he thought I m doing coz I too have feelings..but no I had already made a bf and I was never attracted to mr.x..after that fight I went away 4 months ..I disconnected from me..but last night I reconnected..coz it was his bday..I m thinking of saying him about my bf so that he will not have hopes again..what shall I do?

moodycreature · Answer

Just make it clear whenever he asks because he will feel betrayed of you telling him if he comes to know about your bf from elsewhere . It's totally normal , friendships ending because of getting feelings for each other . In my opinion it is best to stay distant and move on for both of you . If you need someone to talk to I'm here

MDP · Answer

Hi there. If you are sure about Mr X that you don't have that type of feelings , then make it very clear to him and let him know about your boyfriend so that he won't hope anything from you. All the best

obsessedBasmati3 · Answer

okkk...

obsessedBasmati3 · Answer

is it okay if he knows he may not talk to me?

shush7 · Answer

same question

obsessedBasmati3 · Answer

what same qtn?

MDP · Answer

It's okay if doesn't talk to you after that. He'll find his own way. It's his choice he wants to talk to you or not like you made your choice. In this way he won't waste his time hoping for you.  In flip side if he comes to know about your relationship, he'll definately blame you for wasting his time.

obsessedBasmati3 · Answer

will he not blame me now as I have not told me it's been 7-8 months I haven't told him!!???

MDP · Answer

Yeah He might. But it's better to tell the truth now. The more you delay the worst his reaction will be. So 'Better late than never' my friend.

obsessedBasmati3 · Answer

okkkk....

obsessedBasmati3 · Answer

I have to be prepared for the end of friendship between us ryt?

shush7 · Answer

ending freindship is not solution .. problem come and go... its all matter of strong bond .. give time talk to him . apologize .  and ya just chill with him. everything will be normal. but never say lie to him again

obsessedBasmati3 · Answer

I have never lied to him..it's like he knows I like mr y(my bf) but he doesn't know that I have confessed mr.y and made him bf

shush7 · Answer

but its big thing for him na  , because he like you . you just said him that you like mr. y but in reality he is your bf na . so mr.x at his place .

shush7 · Answer

so mr.x is right at his place . because he never expected these from you. he was thinking all good for you . but you said lied and make mr.y your bf on his back.

shush7 · Answer

and one more thing just reverse your and mr.x place.  what will you do is mr. x do same thing to you and you are in love with mr. x and he make a gf miss. z and don't tell to you about her.

obsessedBasmati3 · Answer

ok I got it...

obsessedBasmati3 · Answer

@shush7 just be humble and kind when u r giving any advices to people..just a suggestion as a friend...

shush7 · Answer

@obsessedBasmati3 i personally had faced same situation . My friend did same with me. so i can say all those things. sorry if I hurted you.

obsessedBasmati3 · Answer

no no..don't be sorry...it's ok .as a friend I just suggested

shush7 · Answer

ok thank you

obsessedBasmati3 · Answer

@shush7 ..thanku so much...I told him everything..and he was ok with it..he has no feelings for me from last 8 months

obsessedBasmati3 · Answer

thank you so much guyzzzzz

shush7 · Answer

@obsessedBasmati3 don't say thank you just pray for my freindship and bond with my friend and we both get together as we were

shush7 · Answer

@obsessedBasmati3 thank you you tooo

obsessedBasmati3 · Answer

yeah it will...I will 🙏

shush7 · Answer

thank You ✨

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