Rosy, could you give me a bit of context? How old are the two of you? What do you both do for a living?
Rosy
I'm 21 and he is 24...... I'm studying.....he is going to go for a job
hansa_shaunik
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Can you elaborate on what is his financial situation that they have an issue with? Also, have you had this dicussion with your parents? How did it go,?
Rosy
We still did not say it to my parents.....moreover I'm afraid to say it......I don't know how they'll react to it
hansa_shaunik
Ok. Then what about his financial situation do you feel your parents will reject?
Rosy
His financial situation is getting better day by day.....I feel my parents will not accept it.....I want my parents to accept my love
hansa_shaunik
Your parents may be wanting to hold back for many reasons.
If you want your parents to feel a sense of confidence in your choice, it may help to start by focusing on yourself and working hard to build a career. Use the next few years to encourage each other to work hard and do better. Your support for each other and its consequent outcome is what will decide how your parents feel about this relationship.
We can't control how others will feel about our choices. Instead we can try and make them with a sense of personal responsibility. At this point your responsibility to yourself and your relationship lies in focusing on establishing yourself and supporting each other in doing the same.
