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problem in relationship by being dominated and controlled by the other partner

Hi I'm at my final semester and I am in a relationship for about 1 year and half . There is no effort , care or respect from him. It started of slowly but now it seems like he controls me the whole time. I can't tell my opinion , show my disappointment without starting a fight. He never texts me , calls me , never takes me anywhere but uses me whenever he wants to. I can't even ask him a question but he can. I lost about three bestfriends because in eyes it was all wrong. He isolated me from my friends and when I tried to become friends with his group he talked shit about me and isolated even more. He never cares about me and doesn't let others care about me. I constantly have to reassure him that I love him and I'm not cheating on him but I can't get any reassurances. I can't even call him for a casual talk. He always stays busy. But Ieave all my work when I have to talk to him. I feel like I'm dying daily. I don't even want to be with him anymore i dont want to cry daily. I don't want to ruin my career , my other relationships with people and my character for him.

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murkyFerret5

Exactly the same is happening with me

i cant take this anymore

Same here i feel like i spoil my whole life bcz of this guy

Zoya Ahmad

Hey! Thanks for reaching out. I am glad you opened up about your relationship to us. I can only imagine the kind of emotional toll you must be going through. These are very prominent traits of a toxic relationship. I think you have decided for yourself. Confront him and be straight forward that this wasn’t what you were expecting out of a relationship. You want to be seperated because clearly both of you are not happy about it. Be assertive don’t react or cry just try to explain your points to him.

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He already told me he have no tym for me Nd he want to focus in his studies nd fmly

But I'm feeling vry vry vry sad like a hell im all alone I'm regreting why i met him in my life why i fall love with him I wish I never met him

A'll the tym all these is going in my mind i can't forget him

I'm feeling sooo weak

Like a broken heart

Murky ferret5 it will take time, first feel it then let it go.

Ya... But u knw what I cant express in my words what I'm feeling right now

But I'll do that for my self

Tell me what all are you feeling?

What im feeling is like horrible i really luv him alot even more than that I'm missing sooòoo mcg every mint sec of my life i thought why he did like this to me how could he do like tht he also luvs me bcz of some misundrstng this is happening

I need some space

Idon't want to do anything some fire is in my mind my anger nd sadness is killing me inside I can't share my thoughts with anyone

I want him back in my life I just can't live without him

You are missing him which is natural, because it’s new that’s why you have been feeling this a lot. It will be okay in some time. Give yourself time. Going back to him isn’t something you should do.

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