problem in relationship by being dominated and controlled by the other partner
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Hi I'm at my final semester and I am in a relationship for about 1 year and half . There is no effort , care or respect from him. It started of slowly but now it seems like he controls me the whole time. I can't tell my opinion , show my disappointment without starting a fight. He never texts me , calls me , never takes me anywhere but uses me whenever he wants to. I can't even ask him a question but he can. I lost about three bestfriends because in eyes it was all wrong. He isolated me from my friends and when I tried to become friends with his group he talked shit about me and isolated even more. He never cares about me and doesn't let others care about me. I constantly have to reassure him that I love him and I'm not cheating on him but I can't get any reassurances. I can't even call him for a casual talk. He always stays busy. But Ieave all my work when I have to talk to him. I feel like I'm dying daily. I don't even want to be with him anymore i dont want to cry daily. I don't want to ruin my career , my other relationships with people and my character for him.

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