Problematic situation

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how to deal with this situation. My boyfriend is going out of the country for office work . He has pet dog. He is staying different state and staying alone. He is asking me come his home and take care of his dog . My parents will not allow. Other side i can't take his dog to my home because I m staying with my parents they don't like dog and our house is also not big.  he is telling I m selfish. ,

insecureapricots1 · Answer

any suggestions?

cynicaltomatoe4 · Answer

Try telling the same thing to uour boyfriend.  Tell him that you've got other work to. He can live his dog in a pet care lodge. One year is a lo g time. You cannot stay away from your parents and home just for  a dog

inadilema · Answer

tell him clearly about ur issue

insecureapricots1 · Answer

yes..i told him...it's only for 2 months..

insecureapricots1 · Answer

what you think any fault from my side??

March · Answer

if he knows you really well, he shouldn't be making remarks like this. thi hurtful thing to say

cynicaltomatoe4 · Answer

Not at all. If he really loved the dog, he would have made provision for the fog to travel with him. Just ask him to put the dog in a pet care lodge

insecureapricots1 · Answer

thanks for your suggestions..i wanted sure about I m not doing anything wrong..

cynicaltomatoe4 · Answer

@insecureapricots1 always trust your inner gut. Hope you have a happy life ahead😊😊

insecureapricots1 · Answer

i suggested for pet care..he was telling those are not good enough like how he treating that dog .but if don't have choice tothen he has to do .

cynicaltomatoe4 · Answer

Tell him that you've never been around dogs and don't know how to take care of them. Petodges are very safe I left my cat for 25 days over there. They've been very helpful and loving towards her

insecureapricots1 · Answer

told also i don't have any pet in my home..i don't know how to take care.. he is not talking to me After that.. don't know what is going in his mind..not reading my message also .

cynicaltomatoe4 · Answer

Now ignore him. If he really loves you he would've understood that

insecureapricots1 · Answer

yes.. trying to..but it's hurts..

insecureapricots1 · Answer

i believe..who is belongs to me that person will stay in my life.who doesn't belong to me. if i try 100 times even.i can't keep them with me .

cynicaltomatoe4 · Answer

So sorry for replying late, but yes. Someone who truly and deeply loves you will never put you in such a situation. Take a stand for yourself.  Don't let him call you with words that hurt. Stay strong

insecureapricots1 · Answer

i told him before marriage i can't take any big  responsibility..i did not tell anything seriously..he was thinking after marriage i will not accept his dog. but you know I love pet..as I have some issue that is the reason i can't take now.

cynicaltomatoe4 · Answer

You love dogs, but the dog is not your priority.  I too love my cat but, I don't want someone to take trouble because of it

insecureapricots1 · Answer

yes..that i tried to make him understand... don't know ..he just told we will talk Tomorrow on this..

insecureapricots1 · Answer

I thought he is very simple mined..he is thinking differently..kind of complex..

cynicaltomatoe4 · Answer

I'll suggest,  don't answer him now. if he really cares about you,  he would've understood your situation

insecureapricots1 · Answer

Today he call me and told if you are not capable to handle dog i will not force you .But your way of talking is not good..your dog is not my responsibility.. it means you will not accept my dog in future.

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