So are you a student or do you have a job or something

student of class 12. And have to prepare for many competitive exams

Ohh okay, so the things that are stopping you from starting study are basically everything 😐

yaa

I get the phone part, it's really annoying that you have to do something but we are so comfortable with our phone that, we let go of that thing. I'll say that start with minor changes in your daily schedule, like do something related to your competitive exams for a while and then there's the phone. If you'll go for a major change then, I think you have a hard time to keep up with it, so start with small changes

ya. even I tried this. I get motivated for a while then again distracted

Try telling this same thing to your boyfriend, turn off your phone and start studying, write down all your goals and pin it somewhere near your desk. Try waking up early, Drink a lot of water, meditate

like now, my boyfriend gonna call me and I'll pick it up even working me don't allow it

he is a good earning person, wants to spend all time with me just talking

I want to just stay away from him like for a year

If he really loves you, he would support you to achieve all your goals. For a time being you'll enjoy talking to each other the entire day. Do you call him while he's working?

ya

and he picks or call in just a while

he is so investing that I have a fear of losing him

I in a zone that if I stay away from him, I'll lose a great bond

but I do believe that If it's meant to be, it will be

apart from this, I just need a good last longing motivation. I know I'm talking as a stupid but ya I do feel this.

Just try explaining him your point. Fix a time that's comfortable with both of yours schedule (20-25 minutes a day). Loosing him will make you feel hurt, Tell him you need to focus right now

the main issue is even my parents don't accept him as my friend. I just want to move on from him

and just wanna focus on my career

I'll adjust not talking to him but I can't give a single moment of my life to him. he is an investing person and I get indulge in his thoughts whole day

Focus on studying right now. Invest your time in encouraging each other. Sooner or later your parents will accept him.

no, I genuinely know that my parents doesn't like him

and I just want to stay alone and just focus on my studies for a year

if he truly loves me, will wait for me

Just do that... thing will come the way they're supposed to 😊

what if I want to end this without telling him

Communication is the key. If you want a healthy relationship with him, you gotta tell him everything. If he really cares he'll understand

I had an annoying bf too. And I recently broke up with him because my career just dropped dead to the ground. I recently had my exams and I scored a 957/1000. I realized my potential. He was never patience enough to give me some time and space. He often used to complain about me being selfish of only caring about my own career and not his. And there were lots of others issues too and that i just go offline when it comes to studying. If you feel he is worth the wait then give him chance to be. If you feel it's burdensome and you are not happy .. it's time to let go of it..even if it hurts.. but whatever happens don't let your career go down.. Telling you from my experience..

how you managed to get over of him?

please answer, your experience will help me alot.

I am having a hard time. But pushing myself into books and often going out to the breeze made me feel at ease.

I'll try! Thank you♡ I needed such answer.

I studied alot in the past one and a half month for my exam. So I just studied more whenever I thought of him. I know it hurts but that's just how life is right.

well, can I ask you doubts as I get, I you're comfortable

Yup and once you are done studying try anything nee and fun. I started painting and exercising it makes me feel at ease. Hope it helps. You can do this.. Follow your heart...😊

I'll share my email, you just copy it and I'll immediately delete it

Yup you can always ask I am always here 😊 nice to meet you

so, can I share my email?

yeah sure

did you copied?

I'll delete immediately

yep done

well, mail me!

yeah I just did.

we can use hangouts 😊

thanks for your time and an ultimate boost