Have you tried talking to him about it, he may be very frustrated at this moment. I hope you are giving him well support.
First question is why
Why did you think that he takes it out on you?
As a man and a husband it is very sad to lose a jod considering that a man is the main provider of the family.. Have you ever tried to talk to him about it? Have you ever let him know that no matter what had happened you are there beside him and that life maybe has something good in store for both of you.... Communication is a very good way to resolve issues😊
I support him in the best way that I can, i even encourage him to start his own business. And i constantly reassure him that i will always be there with him, no matter what. Even when he get upset and says thing, i just dnt answer, because i know it's hard
Sometimes he shouts at me and throws stuff, but never at me... He has never hit me, but all this behavior started when he lost his job.