Hi twinkle I understand your concern. It's great that you have goal for yourself to study well. It would be nice if you try to concentrate more on your goal.you can try addressing this concern with your partner where you can share how you feel about him disappearing and not being there at times. Try to analyse what is more important to you at the moment and what will be fruitful for you in future. Take one task at a time and work on it.

We are dating since 7 years and i truly love him. In the beginning everything was just like a dream,but after sometime his behaviour chamged towards me. I even found him getting involved with other girls thousands of time.still he used to say that he only loves me and that i am overthinking about everything.now he says he see a future with me,that he wants to get married but after all those things that he made me suffer including my mental health,my peace of mind,the trust issues that i am still dealing with. I am not sure what i should do.. I love him so much that after everything he's done to me,i never left him.but just because i love him i dont want to live a life full of insecurity and a relationship with lack of trust and efforts from his side Can anyone please help me.I really need some genuine help

After breaking up from 3 years relationship with my ex after a year I met a girl whom I like and now we both are dating since January but she also had a long term relationship before me with his boyfriend and now this things make feel insecure and as being good human I am doing whatever she asked and I don't personally think that I am getting in return what I am seeking for but what afraid to tell her this because what if she says if you can't handle it leave this ... So on one hand I think that things will get better with time but on other hand I think I should try something else

First things first. Girl your education and studies are more important than any relationship because it will stay with your forever. Secondly you said that the guy sometimes texts and then goes away. It is clearly a red flag you are ignoring. You have to tell yourself that studies are a priority right now. There’s still time left for you to study. Try to limit contact or speak to him as a reward for studying well. Listen I know it is really hard to stay focused. But I got my heart broken in class 12th that to for the first time. All you have to do is remain friends with him during this time and fix time to speak to him every day. Start with all 7 days a week and every week limit 1 day and come down to 3 days a week. Tell yourself and force yourself to study everyday. One thing I’ll suggest is pls do meditation in the morning and a quick walk or workout everyday. It keeps anxiety away. TRUST ME ON THIS. Also please try to eat as healthy as you can. Sleep and wake up at the same time everyday. I swear when you’ll be done with your boards and if you do all the hard work it will pay off and you’ll be so fucking proud and strong. Do it!! You’ve got to do it for yourself. And try not to speak to him at night or if you do so make sure you’re sleeping right on time. Avoid having deep or flirty conversations it will keep you unfocused. And for the time being avoid having arguments and fights. Stop expecting shit from him as your boyfriend or whatever. It will make your mood bad. Just make him your strength to study better. You can figure it all out after boards. Stay friends with him for the time being and ask him help to motivate you to study better. You’ve got it. Have faith in the universe :)