i just want to let this out, not just in my head & heart but in writing. let it possibly serve as a small life lesson and remembered down the road as something you've heard before from a random stranger on the internet. LET'S TALK ABOUT SENSITIVE PEOPLE. Yes,they can be a handful. and yes,it will take a humongous effort for them to forgive and forget. why? because they have gotten their trust broken too many times. they know what it feels like to be on the other end of the ditch. they have set high standards, they will not choose to settle for your half-hearted efforts anymore. when they have checked out mentally and emotionally from you, that door will remain close for all time. so if you have found your loyal sensitive person, CONSIDER IT A WIN.