yes i m there currently lol, on one hand i lost all my old friends and on the other hand i dont even try to make new friends . talking to other seems like a task and i m lazy enough to do that
@happyguy12 That is true. I feel like connecting with people is some kind of responsibility.
surely reached a point where I would like to take sanyas
@skylar abhi se? degree lekr become a monk...educated monk
everything is overwhelming bro.I'm just breathing..
me too it's like connecting to ppl is tiring it's like if u don't connect to them continuously they will disappear like they will forget abt u and i don't want to be alone
peskyswift4 going thru exactly the same thing . i dont feel like replying to then but if i dont they will slowly forget about and i will be left alone. not that i dont like being alone , but sometimes it just feels boring and i regret not having any friends but again i dont have the energy to make new friends
made so many typo in the last message lol
happyguy12 so true i also feel the same thing making new friends is tiring like u need to put more effort to stay connected
no problem with the typos 👍
yeah , not only that i have also lost all my old friends bcz of this . currently i just have two people left with whom i talk almost on a regular basis and they also live far away from my place , so basically no one to hang out with or spend time irl.
due to this feeling i lost two of my friends who i spent the most time with and somehow i got the chance again to connect with them and i used it to stay connected but it still doesn't clear the gap u left (2 years)
but still i can't share my inner feelings to anyone
This is the very first time, I feel like I'm not the only one who felt left out in a circle of friends. Because of pandemic, I realized how people can come without notice and leave in our life. We just need to learn on how to move on and accept the circumstances.
its not easy to fill the gap that has been created in these 2 years , still try talking tk them as much as u can possibly . maybe u will feel like before at some point of time
@sethy yes exactly. i slowly got accustomed to my circumstances and do not think much about it nowadays but still once in a while uk..
going through same thing, can't really do much... people come and go... some stay a bit longer or less, if u need someone to listen, I'm here
yeah i am going to do that i don't want to lose these guys bcs they are really the only ppl who make me feel happy
yes guys , whatever u r feeling like share it with @skylar ,hands down the best free therapy u can get. also skylar how are you?
Maybe I am now used to the gap that was created for two years. Do you think it's bad? They have their own circle of friends in the first place. Even before, I'm like hanging on the piece of strings they made for me.
@happyguy -I'm not doing really well to be honest... I'll be fine in next two months or so hopefully.
next two months? all ur exams will be over by then?
@skylar @peskyswift4 @happyguy12 Hope we all find the right circle that can understand for who we are. <33
@sethy no itsnt not bad at all, the gap created in these 2 years csnt be filled so easily but u can still try ur best
@sethyy - it's not bad, eventually u'll learn to move on..., make friends on ur own... don't get too dependent on people... when they leave they always leave void behind
thanks @sethyyy hope you all feel better now talking it out
nah, I'm just hoping... exams will be over and results will be out... maybe I'll be fine-@happyguy
@skylar @happyguy12 Thank you for that!
are you all college students?
@sethy it does take time but if you feel it is necessary do it in the end it is what u feel do u want to stay or leave
@skylar whats your age?
guess it... I'm just hsc passed out! p. s- never ask a lady her age lol😂
because you seem quite mature and full of experiences @skylar
@skylar oh yea i get it , there will be a lot of pressure rn bcz of these exams , however if u feel like talking u ve my insta boldena jo bolna hai
@sethy no , i m currently in class 12 ,abhi tk toh 17 ka bhi nahi hua me
I'm 18, I wanted to lighten up atmosphere lol
@arjun0813 she is too mature compared to her age bro
oh you're quite young... you in college right now? @Skylar