I can understand how you must be feeling. it must be quite shocking to know that your bf got into another relationship so quickly

we was planning to get married we had even bough some materials we was in relationship 3 years and a half,i dont know what to do

for starters, just breathe. Take a deep inhale and exhale. I know it might sound stupid that I'm saying this, but seriously do it. once you have done that think about the possible reasons why this person moved on from your 3.5 yr relationship so quickly. there could be so many things unknown to us. we usually think the worst possible outcome for us because all of our brains are wired that way. we all think of the worst case scenario because that's what helps our brain protect us from feeling hurt.

god..how do these type of creatures even exist ...bloody heartless and emotionless..there must be some red flags in ur realtionship..which have started to showup..nd i think u just have ignored it..tht's why..u r are sufferer now..

the cause was my ex boyfriend of 2017 he called me inviting me for his graduation party and I refused to go there bcoz I know my boyfriend did not like it, but honestly I was not even speaking to that X of 2017, that boyfriend we was planning to get married seen a call of that X of 2017 and he told me that he think we are still closer, then he leave me that way after a day I found him with that new girl in the place where we used to sit, and they start to explain to me how they know each other from 2017 and that girl told me that he had already knows me, they told me that I made a mistake of speaking again to my ex, and they told me that I am beautiful I will have an other person who will love me, I hve said sorry million time but he refused everything, that is how it was, but still now I always cry I am not controlling it.

my ex now...he has done all the planning with me..wht will be life after our marriage,we're gonna settle down and everything...see now i m all alone my myself,with his thought in my mind..

tht's a silly reason to leave someone soo close to ur heart for 3.5 years..if u really mattered to him..he would have talked to you and resolved the matter then nd there..cuz he would be afraid to loose you...this guy tht u r telling about is just a piece of shit