recent break up

Question

hi I am.going through somewhat of a bad break up & I'm young my boyfriend well ex bf tried breaking up with me by blocking me and ghosting me because he couldn't tell me and he says he doesn't know what he wants never before he has ever mentioned breaking up or even suggesting that we need space I really need advice or help because I feel so betrayed I feel like I can never love anymore again and I'm too ashamed to talk about it I've only told 2 friends & they been really helpful but its not enough it just hurts a lot he said the reason why is because life has gotten stressful for him because he goes to work and go to school everyday I asker him if that's the truth multiple times and he said yes but I keep overthinking it and kept thinking he has another girlfriend & that he is lying he said he wants to be friends and stil talk like bf and gf but i dont think i can do that....can someone help?

solemnJerky5 · Answer

what your ex wants is selfish....... trust me there are better things waiting for you down the road. don't ever settle for less

hashbrown · Answer

No this won't be healthy for you. Ask him to make a choice either friends or bf gf.

ketyee · Answer

i have been in ur place mine just told me he dosent deserve me n just disappeared blocked me from everything cn u imagine if i was that good why would he gost me like  that tbh i would hv felt better if he answerd my questions or just hv told me the truth....but after a while i realised he isnt gone be helpful no matter what i did so i moved on it wasnt easy am telling u buy it was possible am a prove dnt try to run away from the pain but accept it feel it but dont let it drag u down

riannachristina19 · Answer

all these answers make so much sense to me like I want to believe him but I just feel like I can't so its like I've thought about these same things in the comments and it makes so much sense to me I will put this to use

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?