I'm seriously not good at relationship advice but there's one thing I should say to you , please never hurt yourself for anyone , I even beg you please don't hurt yourself ffor anyone even for your parents you don't know how much pain it will cause throughout your life , I did hurt myself for my loved one and I regret that everyday

listen. it's okay u have to calm down no one deserve to hurt urself for him I know ur pain I have been throw 2 toxic relationships and now iam suffering from my ex girlfriend the point iam telling u that u have to be patient u still young and u will love and be loved again but about him sorry for saying that but he loves seeing u suffer if he loves u he will leave the other girl but he didn't so u must wake up from this situation don't do this again don't hurt ur self don't send him any pics or any message and believe me he will come to u .. if u wanna talk iam here if u wanna advice iam here just ask me I know all ur feelings now cause I have been through it before its okay😊

See Aarohi If you want to love someone truely then you have to love yourself first. Never ever hurt youself you are only 16 and you know what love happens by itself you can't force someone to love you. He is not in love with you I know it sounds so damn harsh but it's true and do you who loves you for real is your parents and when you hurt yourself they will be in pain more then you. don't ever hurt yourself please. And trust me someday you will find your true love who will really love you unlike that boy you are in love with.

but I love that boy so much how can I let him goo I am or was in relationship with him now it's 10 months he says he loves me but the thing is ki that girl saved his life and she stated loving him 2 months I was not in contact with my bf that girls is emotionally blackmailing my boy I cried so much I was admitted in hospital I became so weak that I didn't went to school for you 1 and half month am in 10th . my boy told me that he is doing fight with her just to make her far but he is also mentioning her in his love insta stories means with love songs thats hurt yaat it breaks you but still I choose to stay with him I love him soooo much I cant let him goooo I don't have anyone to share my feelings with not even friends I dont have them too .... am completely alone I just have him 😭😭😭😭 now

aarohi@ i guess this is ur first relationship if it's ur first time u have to know something love isn't everything if u r alone it's okay if u have no friends it's okay but listen to my advice I know it's really hard but it's real if he loves u he supposed to only see u and u sat he mentioned her in ista stories believe me this is not the end it's hard time I know but it will pass surly it will pass u know I broke up with my gf and I lost all of my friends and Iam totally destroyed but I know it's just some time and it will pass ur life is matter u is matter don't hurt ur self again if u need anything just ask I'm ready to help u

@do7a thank you for the help your advice but from my inner heart I feel ki everything will be nice in-between us he is with me still I told him please dont mention her dont talk anything romantic or dont increase her feelings he said yes to me he will not and last night he was with me I was crying naa then he made me laugh . you know he is just stuck between us both girls . I love him unconditionally I am not forcing him to stay I just told him if you dont want me please let me know if you are not there I am also not there . He is not letting me goo he shows his love care to me . I love him so much that I always pray to God for us . In this all things the problem is that why the girl cant goo away from us why is she not understanding why my boy is quite he should speak for us naa 😭 why is he just asking me wait why the damm am not letting him go if he dont love me . I am completely (now I don't have words to say what I am completely now ) 😣😣😣😣 but everything hurts a lot just if he is with me only naa I feel good .

u r attached and this is the problem I understand all you said but there is one thing must be clear if he continues in what he doing and don't leave her u should goo and win urself another thing don't blame her all the time blame Ur bf too he also made mistakes and if he wanna leave her he will leave her but he just stuck like u said have patience but the moment u feel like u r enough please goo away ..I hope u get well soon

@do7a I told him that till 23rd April please solve this all or else you will lose me forever (23rd April we will complete 1 year) I hope everything will be fine 🤞🏻

See you are just 16..you are teen ager..generally from this age we come out of home and meet new people, make friends, fall in love, crushes happens, go through breakups, heartbreak, we fall and again rise.. and at last lately we realise no ones really cares about you other than your mom, dad and few close friends. So rn what I feel is you just give him a space.. ik he means a lot to you.. and you have fear of loosing him. But don't worry.. just be calm, keep your phone away..and some days distract yourself and concentrate on your other stuff.... if he really wants to be with u he will definitely come. Don't overthink about your relationship with him.. sometimes overthink hurts you more. Life is all about creating good memories with each person. So, if he is TRULY good as a person try to be his good friend... and luckily if he TRULY loves then be his good lover. 😊 One day after few years you and boyfriend will definitely laugh together on yourself for how you both created all this mess. 😇

thank you so much dear @keisha2 hope everything will be great soon 🤞🏻 . but I can't stay away from him being without him a single day is like being with smile without love .🤞🏻 I will just pray to god for us and I will try to stop overthinking . thank you once again

@ferventFlamingo1 thanks for your advice please dont beg I was completely broken I didn't even know what what things I have done to myself I was just in pain there was no happiness no one in my life to talk to me to understand me I was having no one with whom I can share my feelings my pain in that all things I stated hurting my self and even tried for sucid3 . if all the things will not get clear naa then definitely I happy person will be no more I am not talking about death I am saying ki everything in me will just goo away I will br alive but as dead I will lose the love the trust my cry my smile me .

@aarohi1... dear..truly loving someone is a kind of heavy word. and it requires LOT of maturity.. if u can't stay away from him for a single day.. that means he is in your mind constantly... I repeat you this is NOT healthy... to get rid of this attachment and addiction.. u need to shift your focus on other work.. talk to your peopt at home, help them in their work, go to meet school friends, join new class... this is the time to learn new things, live full of life... work had and party hard baby.. chill❤... When you will be the best version if yourself everything will get on the track!

@keisha2 I am trying to distract my mind I am just completely alone I dont even have my friends I trusted them and they...😣 still I am trying my best to not to think I have joined extra classes of school as its my 10th teachers are also asking me to concentrate on studies only they are also asking me to take care of my self I just completely became weak 1st time I loosed 3 kgs in just 1 month 😣😣😣😣. I am trying to not to think about him everything will be great Krishna ji is there but all of a sudden I starts thinking about relationship it has became a scary one now last night I slept at 4 am that all thought were scaring me just like if a ghost is there he will speak this and that will scare you you will be irritated you will not anything to your self same is happening with me am sooooo scared that all things are scaring me in the morning also I woke up just Becoz of that thoughts that scary one they are not even letting me sleep or concentrate on studies 😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖 I am just tired 😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😖 still I think ki everything will be good in between us I just cant stop myself....