Relationship problems bc of mental health probs

Question

I tend to push people away because of my mental health. And so I have been in my first relationship since August. And my mental health have been crap for like a month now. I explained tk him tho, like 3 times, that it's nothing personal and all I need is space when im going through these times but he just doesn't want to believe me or even listen. He is blaming everything on me. He thinks he is the problem. He thinks I dont love him anymore and is just getting tired of him. 'You aren't the girl I fell for in the first place'. And yeah we have been on bad terms for almost a week. I dont know what to do. I really did try to explain in detail for him but he keeps making everything about him.. I mean I swear I understand his side. But the problem is HE doesnt understand mine.

anxiousaries · Answer

if you have already told him about your issue in DETAIL and then also if he doesn't understand, then you both should take a break.. maybe that can help.. but if there's something (even if it's small) that he doesn't know about, then you should at the first place tell him everything about what's happening with you. he's your partner. he has right to know about you and its his duty as well. to listen to you and to make you feel safe and fine.

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