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Hey I love a guy who is in relationship with another girl .he likes me but he loves her and there relationship is not going well , since we are very close friends we share each and everything . And whenever he talks about hi gf I feel jealous and insecure but I can't even confess my love for him cause I am afraid of loosing him , loosing our friendship but these things when he tells how much he love her gf and all disturbs me mentally and emotionally both I don't know what should I do. We have also kissed once a few days ago while he is in relationship. I know he is not happy with his gf but he is not strong enough to take the decision.. once he asked me if I love him or not I said I don't again because I don't want our friendship to be ruined. Please tell me what should I do.

ferventFlamingo1 · Answer

You confess your love to him ! Whatever happens it's okay you just confess , if you didn't confess you will regret it for your whole life ! If he's happy with his gf then don't force him, if he really not happy with her and he really loves you ,he will come to you ! But never be afraid of confessing your love ,it's like hell

S_air · Answer

You shouldn't be the reason of someone's relationship to be sabotaged, if he is not happy he should be assertive about it.  think you should just confess your feeling and not expect anything in return.

grizzledCoati1 · Answer

At this point I think he might not be so strong just be there for him and the time he asked you that whether you love him or not just go ahead and tell your feelings. That way he'll know that there is someone who is there to love him. And later you won't regret that you didn't tell him. Regret is much worse.

traumatized · Answer

First off all don't sabotage your relationship if you guys are meant to be you will be if not now then in future but don't sabotage their relationship and your friendship tell him how yiu feel and tell him you don't want him to give you an answer you just wanted to confess your feelings and don't expect anything from him because even if they break up he will still need alot of time to move on and you don't want to be someone's rebound so let things happen and flow naturally everything will fall in line for now just confess your love and tell him you don't need to know his answer! Because he won't be completely yours even if they break up and you guys get together without him moving on he won't be completely committed to you

shinchan24 · Answer

Okiee thanyou so much!

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