Rough life

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hi.... actually the thing is I am an average student everyone says that I won't be successful in life all my cousins are blessed ... my cousin sister was also not good at studies but she is getting married to a class-1 govt officer and my cousin brother is also a merit Lister .. all this things were told by a pandit ji earlier that my cousin will be a ranker and my sister will marry a man with a great job and to me he Sayed that he will do good at technical feild ... everybody else in the family is getting sucessfull thay are blessed by birth but I am not what should I do , my life is worthless and I am not going through a decent life pls help as it's enting me from inside everybody says I won't be successful. I tried alot but i failled in NDA exams too which was my dream career 😭 now I have switched it to engineering i am constantly getting backlash .

Moonmin05 · Answer

first of all being an average student doesn't mean u won't be successful in life it's just all 'bout hard work what others say doesn't matter being a a class student also doesn't mean they will be same me myself was a top student bt this year in 12 i got supplementary..funny no?..that's why all matters what u think of urself and what can u do to achieve ur goal we all have to face challenges whether life or career u just need to take some time and try harder...i can understand sometimes PPL put their beliefs in priest that what they say is always right bt it's not a right thing to do only u can decide whether ur a loser or a successful person...so don't think about it too much just believe in urself and work hard

obsesseddinosaur3 · Answer

thanks moonmin i am also in 12th pcm it really means alot for me 🤧

Moonmin05 · Answer

it's ok I'm a bio student bt i got supplementary i was too stressed myself

obsesseddinosaur3 · Answer

actually the pandit ji whom I have talked about his prediction were very accurate that's what stressing me like all my cousins will be superior in everyway

Moonmin05 · Answer

no need to feel stressed just believe in urself that ur the best and will do a great job in future

achuontrack · Answer

i was an A grade student, trust me when I say success doesn't come easily. being average is actually a gift. just trust yourself and move forward, Don't listen to people who say bad things abt ur future. u r precious and u r worthy. tell yourself that.

achuontrack · Answer

i forgot to mention that i quit college and Don't even have a degree and 12th certificate. i am just a 10th pass student rt now.

obsessedunicorn8 · Answer

failure is the key of success ....fail has two meanings face everything and rise .forgot everything and run its completely ok to fail try something else or try nda again

dian · Answer

Trust me average or not does not matter as long as you know how to come out of it...I'll give you my example I took engg on my own will and planned for an MBA...but was a last bencher during college days..I did have backlogs... People sitting in the front or my cousin's got into Tech space are behind than what Iam today...Everyone said do this course in BE but I took a very different subject..MBA same had backlogs doesn't matter..all that matter is your talent...none checks my marks as long as I crack the interview n prove my talent at work..So chill it is all a phase..

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