hey , i was confused about my ex best friend. we knew each other since8 years but last year we stopped interacting
he created a scene due to a misunderstanding ( threw his phone , took my bag away )
and since this year i started to miss him
same thing happened to me.. me and my best friend stopped interacting and after two years gap we got back now and I am glad I decided to talk and sort things out
so should you think I should talk to him after whatever he did to me ?
our heart always know if the person is genuine or not.. so if you feel he is genuinely nice person you can try to figure out what was his deal.. if you have doubts forget it
you mentioned it was a misunderstanding, so it is possible that your friend might have given it some thought after cooling down. you can try reaching out
yes right he is not a bad person but my friends are like you should move on as he disrespected you and may even do it again. he left me there and took my bag and then his sister came to return it
what should i do ?
you should ask him straight and if he isn't sorry for what he did you should skip this sympathy path.. making boundaries are necessary.. if he doesn't have a feeling of guilt he might do that again so you better make decision wisely
okay so texting him first will be fine ? as he haven't texted me since that day although he put up 100s of status after that but never confronted directly. is it fine to text first as he was at fault ?
just reach out but don't start talking about the incident directly because it might bring up some bitterness. try talking on any neutral subject.
yes ofcourse sometime people feel guilty and feel ashamed talk to him.. if you have any grudges ask him out.. and analyze how he behaves.. don't put much efforts if he has moved on and doesn't want to get back.. but if he is sorry, try to make things right
thankyou so much pearl12 and darkswan710.. means alot😊😊😊😊
my rake is this: you should take your decision yourself. Do nor rely on your friends, do not rely on anyone...different people will handle this differently, and whatever anyone says are mere suggestions. You want to try and reach out? do it, you think it's a bad idea? that's fine too...in the end, you can say that this was your decision and you will take all the goods and bads that it leads you to, proudly.