noone is going to fire you just bcz you didn't drink when they want. that I know for sure.
Sadperson, it seems from what you're saying your boss is someone who will fire you the minute you refuse him on anything, no matter how trivial.
Ideally, if you're a good worker, I'm certain your boss would not fire you simply because you refused to have a drink.
With that said, I would like to ask you, does saying no to anyone in your life, not just your boss, cause a great deal of stress for you? Do you find it easy to create and maintain boundaries in your relationships?
Hi maam. Sorry for miscommunication. I was working in a company. My manager was arranging parties,in the party he was telling that person didnot accept my invitation, okay this month his bonus is gone. And I also saw whoever he is doing his flattery oy psychpancy he and his chamchas were creating problems intentionally.So I LEFT MY JOB.It had been 4 years and still I am thinking that past bcz salary was good and although i am doing job now my salary is less than previous job.So low self esteem coming that I am unable to adapt the situation.