Sadperson, it seems from what you're saying your boss is someone who will fire you the minute you refuse him on anything, no matter how trivial.
Ideally, if you're a good worker, I'm certain your boss would not fire you simply because you refused to have a drink.
With that said, I would like to ask you, does saying no to anyone in your life, not just your boss, cause a great deal of stress for you? Do you find it easy to create and maintain boundaries in your relationships?
Hi maam. Sorry for miscommunication. I was working in a company. My manager was arranging parties,in the party he was telling that person didnot accept my invitation, okay this month his bonus is gone. And I also saw whoever he is doing his flattery oy psychpancy he and his chamchas were creating problems intentionally.So I LEFT MY JOB.It had been 4 years and still I am thinking that past bcz salary was good and although i am doing job now my salary is less than previous job.So low self esteem coming that I am unable to adapt the situation.