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Question

Hi, I am in a relationship, we got married in feb. with in a month we have developed so much love with each other but we also had a lot of fights and she is doing what I don't like and I clearly told her not to do. but she is still adamant and now we don't talk with each other. I tried to call a lot but she is still not picking up my phone....

awez707 · Answer

Where there is love, there will be fights as well. You cannot simply just put down a summon on your partner not do do this. If there is something you don't like talk and communicate like adults. This is not a relationship anymore where you both are not talking. If there is any issue sit down and talk about it. Be honest and tell her why you don't want her to do that thing. Understand her choice as well. Thats how marriage works!

kalshniv · Answer

I am talking about to leave ur job. she is not ready to do so. she is adamant that she will not leave job and all.

awez707 · Answer

Bro why do you want her to leave her job??

kalshniv · Answer

because her job is not at all good. late night shifts and mediocre job. that's why I want to leave the job.

awez707 · Answer

Okay First of all why that job isn't good at all! How can you justify that? Second if she wanna work you don't have any right to stop her. I am sorry to say this my friend you're wrong here.

kalshniv · Answer

But what if my family donot want to her to do work, then what I will do.

awez707 · Answer

Bhai you have to make your family understand this. As an individual she also has all the rights to earn. Here your family is trying to suppress here. Be it for whatever reason if she wanna earn let her earn. Why the hell in blue you wanna kill your peace of mind by creating chaos between you two just cause of your family. Make your family understand. Look at her as an individual not your wife or married women. It's time you break this streotype in your family

kalshniv · Answer

and what about if a ritual that is followed in every family, I am talking about nose piercing. what about it. I told her but still she is not ready for nose piercing.

awez707 · Answer

Tell me what is more important. Rituals or your love of life. If ritual is more important contact a divorce lawyer please. Cause trust me she won't turn down in front of you. If you love her than there is no bloody requirement of rituals. Everyone has the right to make their own choices. And if you're talking about so called rituals i am sure you also break of some them here and there. What about it? Again she hasn't signed any contract to follow that rituals. She loves you that's why she left her house her family for you and if your family cannot compromise with this . I am sorry I don't have any words for your so called family.

kalshniv · Answer

but what about the taunts she do with me..

awez707 · Answer

You're taking away her freedom. And you can't stand her taunts! Waah Bhai Hypocrisy at its best.

kalshniv · Answer

toh main hi galat hun

kalshniv · Answer

lekin cooperate karne ka kya matlab hota h

kalshniv · Answer

and what abt I have also did some things for her. but she is not understanding it.

awez707 · Answer

There are things I don't wanna put down here. Might be not good option. If okay call me

kalshniv · Answer

I will call u

awez707 · Answer

waiting for your call.

kalshniv · Answer

calling u in 30 min

awez707 · Answer

Try to call as early as you can. I have to login for work at 18.30

MDP · Answer

Bro I read all the comments and your problems. Don't get me wrong. Some communication gap is there in between. Like .... why didn't you and your wife discussed all these things before marriage? I can understand your pain. Her taunt is annoying you. But not imagine you want her to do something which she doesn't want. These points are very serious to talk prior to marriage. Above all I completed understand your circumstance that you are under pressure of your family at the same time disliked by wife. If you wish We can talk over call and find some solutions.

kalshniv · Answer

MDP can you give me ur number, I want to talk...

MDP · Answer

sure. 7008011388

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