sex anxiety because of past guilt
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i hate sex and trying to get help. i am married. before my wedding i and my spouse has discussed extensively as to what is causing my sudden hatred for sex... We read many articles and concluded it might be HSDD. i cannot tell my spouse that the memories of my past sexual relationship is the cause of the hatred for sex. i have felt jilted in love after the end of my past relationship, i also feel like a slut sometimes that used sex to get what i wanted. so all these unpleasant memories keep pulling me down to the point i feel depressed after having sex with my spouse. i need help please i need counselling and advice

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