sibling rivalry at home, provoking anger

Question

I have really bad sibling rivalry in my home...My sister she always disrespect me she talks down to me. I always forgive her because I am eldest but she keeps on doing it. Everytime I accomplish something tryibg to share a moment with my proud parents she either will start a fight or provoke my anger.

Sunshineme · Answer

She is your sister and the best way is to talk to her heart to heart calmly and find out whats  her problem. Hve you tried this?

zoya_ahmad · Answer

Hey! Thanks for reaching out. I am sure it must be disturbing for you. Have you tried talking about this with your sister? Have you tried fixing it with her personally on a good note?

offendedSeagull8 · Answer

I did and she likes to put the blame on me she makes it look like its all because of my anger and I am the issue. And its like a trigger everytime I try to comunicate I get shut down.

zoya_ahmad · Answer

Talk about this infront of elders.

offendedSeagull8 · Answer

Nobody listens to me they think its just jealousy. They instead tell me to behave because I am eldest

zoya_ahmad · Answer

Tell them it has been bothering you. And you aren’t okay with it.

offendedSeagull8 · Answer

I tried manytimes even today morning but they said I am eldest I should know better. I have a younger sister she use to be my best friend she never took sides. But I don't know what happen even her she doesn't talk to me.

zoya_ahmad · Answer

Can you tell me an instance?

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