so I'm in love with this girl she really cares about me but doesn't want a committed relationship with me she chose her ex over me and still talks to me and flirts with me what am I supposed to do I feel hurt when I see her talking to her ex. she tells me that she loves but is playing me. these mixed signals are killing me I feel depressed I feel like everyone I love or loved either die or leaves me. it sucks I feel like an option I feel like I can never be a priority of someone.