first accept that he is not going to be in your life. Then as you will feel pain because of memories, eventually it will be ok. But going through this pain is important as this will only help you move on
guiltystork0
but I'm having very bad thoughts about him my mind is saying very bad which I don't like
guiltystork0
just became he is not belong to that doesn't mean I'll have bad thoughts about him
guiltystork0
and that's makes me feel like I'm a bad human being crazy
alertchile0
so these are the thoughts that you are not thinking...right?
alertchile0
I mean to say you don't think in this manner but it just comes to your mind
guiltystork0
yeah it's not me but my mind
guiltystork0
I'm trying to avoid those thoughts cause it's not me but I feel bad cause i know what those thoughts are
alertchile0
okay so if you are not thinking that, it's not on you. There are so many thoughts like these that just come and go, you don't even mind them, similarly don't mind it
guiltystork0
how can I don't for person that i have feelings and care for and just because he can't belongs me my mind is saying shit about him that's makes me feel very bad
guiltystork0
you understand me
alertchile0
maybe your brain is finding reasons for not being with him..so that you can really move on?
guiltystork0
but my mind is finding reasons to stick with him too which is not good for my heart and mind both
narayanchitra__17
Time will change everything... look people will abandon you... but don't you dare to abandon yourself!
