Stress Anxiety

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Stress Anxiety

peacebro · Answer

Same here... Join the club

cynicalthrush8 · Answer

which club I have to join?

peacebro · Answer

No just a saying... Club of shy people and introverts

cynicalthrush8 · Answer

oh...I tried to find but not able to... do you know some way

peacebro · Answer

Me too! I haven't found any

cynicalthrush8 · Answer

oh...this is very stressful.... feels like trapped in time... can't see any way to come out

peacebro · Answer

I think we can't find any coz we are too shy to form a club 🤦‍♂️

cynicalthrush8 · Answer

you are from?

peacebro · Answer

India

cynicalthrush8 · Answer

me too .. from ghaziabad up

peacebro · Answer

oh ok... I'm from hyd

cynicalthrush8 · Answer

ok ...your age and are you also going through same?

peacebro · Answer

Yes I'm 25 and going through same

peacebro · Answer

I'm a new employee finding it hard to interact with others

cynicalthrush8 · Answer

oh ok.... me also same...so basically I was used to live lonely life as those 4 years of school made it worse for me to make friends after that or do social interaction...but one colleague in my office don't know how and when motivated me unintentionally and the way he treated me made me realised how friends look like

cynicalthrush8 · Answer

and when he told me he is resigning....I don't know why I feel very stressed and feels like my motivation will go away and the only person who daily calls me will also gets away once he switch the company

cynicalthrush8 · Answer

i also tried to apply for switch and I got one offer also but I am confused Now whether I am Making switch because he is or is it indirectly motivation for me to come out of comfort zone

cynicalthrush8 · Answer

and also I am not able to see once he leaves what will happen...then again I will move back to living lonely life

peacebro · Answer

It's ok... Don't feel demotivated, Remember what he has said to you... Why does motivation go away

peacebro · Answer

it good to have a person like that but you shouldn't be dependent on him... Make your choice at your own will

cynicalthrush8 · Answer

sometimes when he include me in his tasks and all, I feel I am wasting his time as he is very confident, socialise person and I can't talk more than about work but when we are with other colleagues they laughs and crack jokes

cynicalthrush8 · Answer

i know...that's why I am confused.... whether this switch is because he is doing...or life is giving opportunity to grow and come out of comfort zone....it's very stressing and I am not able to make any decision

peacebro · Answer

Yeah that is a confusing thing... but I think you should move out of your comfort zone so that you can try on your own... try it if you think it is worth the risk to become better for yourself.

cynicalthrush8 · Answer

this all seems very confusing....why so much of change need to happen at same time

peacebro · Answer

Yeah life is unpredictable... tests us in all ways

cynicalthrush8 · Answer

yes...that's the one question of mine to life that if I have learnt to live alone without any excitement or expectation then why life send that colleague now...I am also human...he has done so much unintentionally in last 1 year that I cannot repay a single thing back to him...but why only this short lived entertaining part came if it has to end

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