Stress of not being able to study

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I am a CA aspirant Age 28. I have been a part of this profession since last 10 years. I am unable to clear my final level exams since past 4 years. The reason being I do not study. I get distracted by various social media platforms and pretend to my parents and friends that I am studying. This is happening for the past 4 years. Everytime the result is announced, I fail. I am neither able to quit the course nor I am able to study. I feel broken whenever I see my parents cry because of my results. I know I am cheating on them. I feel scared in applying for a job because I know that I will be unable to fulfill their requirements. I feel like a burden on my parents.

Samairah · Answer

Well your have to speak to them and tell them how you feel. CA is tough and not everyone gets to the finals. Don’t give up and keep trying. I am sure you’ll make it 🙃 and make them proud

happyregrets · Answer

@Samairah To be honest I don't know what to tell them. I mean I can't just go and tell that I haven't studied for the last 4 years. They will be so shattered

Samairah · Answer

Well you have to tell them how you feel and what emotional stress your going through. Honest conversation will help you overcome it and might bring your focus back

happyregrets · Answer

Okay I'll try. Thanks for talking :)

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

You've already come this far, you can do it. All you need to do is study. How about quitting social media until your next exam? Limit your screen time. Keep your phone away, make a schedule, stick to it. Maybe you can check your social media updates at the end of the day, for about 10-15 mins. You must already be aware of all this as you're old enough to understand. But you need the will power to keep yourself away from your distractions.

happyregrets · Answer

@excitedTomatoe7 yeah I guess I lack the will power because I get distracted very easily

niharika17 · Answer

u have gone too far to achieve this goal one final step of hardwork ahead and u will be a ca which is toughest course.. start wirking hard today deactivate all social sites today And dnt purchase any subscription things will change

happyregrets · Answer

@niharika17 yes I'll try that this time

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