Hi.. I lost my dad an year ago.. we are I to upper middle class family. I was thought my whole life to respect people irrespective of their profession or how much they make. My dad's friends were his barber, cycle mechanic etc.. Now recently I got engaged and groom is from working in abroad now often I am getting scoldings like dignity is important. Have self respect. Don't behave friendly with everyone. Don't be a loser. Value money. He talks a lot about jewels and saree for wedding preparation and Latest designs which I have no idea about it. I have been happy all my life with what I have. I will be excited just for a chocolate. These saree and jewels are not exciting me. Is it good to proceed further or should I call off the wedding. I am really scared. I have no idea how to handel this situation.