Stressed about marriage situation

Stress

Relationship Issues

Hi , Please refer me better practical solution , Iam suffering from stress problem, actually what happened is like I went through a severe breakup few years ago I thought that I won't love anyone more because of that , at that time my parents asked me to get married as time is moving on I said ok, they started searching matches for me meanwhile I fell in lov with one of my friend, he is the only solution for whatever the problem I have faced. He loves me and cares me that much but the problem here is he is still in search of job and iam earning so my parents not accepting that and they are searching for matches and forcing me to get married ASAP. I have to agree them as they also think about me as guy is not working they won't accept us and they want me to get married, iam literally helpless I really don't know whom I need to satisfy. Both are important but if I want one I have to lose another one. Please suggest me better solution which should be possible in practical. Thanks,. 😌

vineela

5 Answers

Sunshineme

Well, the only practical solution is for him to get a job. If job is the only criteria for family then ask for a deadline may be like 3 months to 6 months and give the guy also so much time to find. If in that period he gets the job then good.

That is the main problem here, he told me that he need few more months to get a job , so I have rejected matches what I got just manged myself from my parents that I didn't liked some of the qualities from the guys they bought, and now the wait is over they vexed of watching matches for me now they are forcing me to get married what they have selected, and other thing is like my boyfriend has a passion on government job he is trying on his best but we are not even getting notifications due to the pandemic , I have already given him the time I am extending it aslo but the problem is his job if he tried the job also we don't know if he get it or not and if he got a job also it takes very long time to complete all the formalities and all

And my family not at all accepting me to give that much time

killerhealth

What is your partner’s stand in this? Is he willing to give up?

Yes he is leaving the situation to me he is telling me like if you are ok to get married with another guy you can a head I won't disturbe at any cost, but if you like me na wait for more time . Like that he is replying me

I am not fit for anyone

Unloving

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