Don’t give up and talk to your mother . Sort it out with her. Your 19 these are the best years of your life so take some time out from studies and do things you love doing 😊

The whole problem happened because i talked to her :(

Hey! Thanks for reaching out. I can understand, all this pressure- must have been difficult to handle. What did you talk about and what was her reaction?

She asked me if i wanted to write any other exam as well. I said yes so that i wouldnt have to repeat a year if i didnt get in. But she immediately told me she didn't want me to write any other exam and that if i did not get it, i would have to repeat a year more.

i would love to become a doctor, but cannot think of repeating one more year. Never before my mother mentioned anything about repeating a year more, i think she got the idea when my mother's friend told her that her daughter may repeat a year more n all.

i really dont knoe what to do

Have you tried telling her that this is creating a lot of pressure and you are not willing to devote another in preparation. You want to have an alternative career plan and along with that you can again devote sometime for preparation.

i did. It makes her feel bad. i can see that in her face. She even told me she had to go through a lot for me n all.

Can you tell me how to stop being emotional all the time? I really love my mother, she does a lot for me and i know that. But even a small disappointment in her face makes me feel awful and then i start crying :)

i want to avoid that. I can't concentrate in my preparations

I can get it, but you have to make up your mind what you want for yourself and understand that your mother in any case wants to see you happy and successful be it any field.

iam 19 years old,iam a repeater,iam also sitting studying at my home ,iam talking online coaching ,my teachers are fantastic,but the only problem now is time ,and bcoz of my laziness iam facing this problem,i want to be a doctor bcoz my parents want it ,i ll also feel good if i became a doctor,i am willing to complete all the syllabus but ,bcoz of my procrastination ,only 48 days are left for exam iam prepared nill for the exam .iam feeling very bad for my family ,bcoz all my friends took some seat they got but iam repeating ,i will repeat for themselves ,but the problem is the society i will face and my family will face ,and disappointment i see in my fathers eyes his abusement iam gonna face ,once i faced the last year,i am from a lower middle class family .I regret of my behavior.dont know what to do these 48 days.