There's this guy I have a crush on. He is 4 years older than me. I met him through a friend of mine who is dating his friend. The guy and I haven't talked much... but I don't know why I feel like I have a connection with him. I want things to happen between us so bad. 2 days ago we were drunk with our friends where I confessed I like him and somehow we ended up making out. Later that day we had intercourse. And now I feel like he might be dodging me. I texted him but he isn't replying or reading the message. I'm afraid to ask him questions like where is this going or what are we... he has recently lost someone close to him so I don't want to pester him with my questions. But at the same I don't know what else to do. If I should wait, how long do I wait? What should i expect? What should I do?