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stressed about unsatisfactory performance in exams

i am depressed because i won't be getting good percentage to go to good highschool. i broke my parents trust they had huge expectation from me . i am good for nothing they sacrificed so much for but i gave my parents a tag of parents of failure. how can i face this society. i want to end my life. i was unsuccessful in killing myself twice

Sanyukta

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Z_Zidane
You getting bad marks or below expectations doesn’t reduce their love for you :) . Not all the toppers of the world have been successful leaders and your marks don’t define your :success
Sanyukta
but i am going to face so much difficulties . i might not get the stream i like then whats the point of working so much when i can't get what i like
suffocated_she
well if you know, You still have option! you can change your stream in second year, If you get good grades in first year. and stream not at all matters if you gain knowledge through web or other sources. You can still excel in what you like and love .
Sanyukta
if i humanities i can't change into science for choosing science as my stream i have to get percentage over 90%
Zoya Ahmad
Hey! Thanks for reaching out. See you can not change your marks now, what you can do is how you can win back your parents trust, how you can explore new career option in the available field. You can excell in any stream you wish to, it’s never late. Start from today. You are loved by your parents they will support you no matter what.
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Sanyukta
Thanks for listening but i can't take any other stream other than science actually my aim was to become a doctor . seems like i can't now
Zoya Ahmad
Is your result out now?
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Sanyukta
no but my result will be surely bad.
Zoya Ahmad
Don’t stress over it right now. Wait for your result to come. In the mean you can look for alternative career options in each stream.
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justwannabehaply
I mean people have a bad idea for streams except science and commerce . but actually the whole obsession for just science stream is also a reason of qualified unemployed doctors and engineers. i myself took up science and me being a good student can barely see a bright future . whereas my cousin is a brilliant student, studied humanities and is pursuing law at one of the best nlu. so there is nothing wrong in any pirticular stream . All you have to do is thag your immense jard work
Sanyukta
Thanks for giving advice. i will surely think over it.
Sanyukta
Hello everyone It's me Sanyukta My result already been out( sorry for informing late). I got 87.4% in my board exam. I got my science stream . Thank all of you for encouraging me . It means a lot to me. Thank you so much. I am very grateful to all of you.
Zoya Ahmad
Yay! That’s really amazing. Congratulations!! I am really glad, now have a goal and start working towards it.
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Sanyukta
Thank you Zoya Didi. I will make sure to work hard towards my goal. And thanks for those words you messaged earlier before my results are out. I always kept those on my mind. Thank you so much.
Sanyukta
It's very contrasting even though I have everything still I am unhappy. Is it because am I greedy. Even though I have such a good people still I feel very lonely. It's like I am screaming in crowd but no one can hear me. The only thing that comes to my mind is I am good for nothing and I am useless.
Zoya Ahmad
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You are not greedy at all. It happens with everyone. Tell me what happened? What made you feel like this about yourself?
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Sanyukta
It's like I have been so bad about myself lately. Whenever I am in school , I was so afraid of everyone even I started crying in classroom for no reason. I feel I don't fit in here. Everyone is better than me. I have been procrastinating a lot because of it my studies are getting hampered. I might let my parents down. I wish I don't live anymore.

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