I am sure it must really devastating for you. Have you tried talking about the problems that you both are facing in the relationship?

You should talk to your guy about these problems and discuss it out with him.

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Yes we have discussed abt it.... Sometimes he gets really angry when i say all these and cry but he is very considerate at the same time... later he will try to deal with me politely... so it will be alright for sometime.. then again it will start happening the same way... I think something is not right with me.... i feel like i am not mentally alright!

i know its so irritating sometimes but dont think you are an option to him be a priority and maintain ur self respect!

Do you think he is a narcissist? Because I too had similar experiences and finally I couldn't tolerate more and left him. Later I discovered that he was a narcissist because he always made me think I am over reacting to everything, its all my mistake...etc. I felt verymuch similarity in our cases while reading your post. Never think that something is wrong with you. The things that hurt you keep bothering you because he doesnt make effort to fix it. Just look forward whether he makes any effort to keep you happy, and if he is just careless about you, girl you deserve better!

I am positive that he isnt a narcissist, cuz I can see that he is very concerned and wants to make it right for me... he even apolozises and says that he ll try not to let it happen again... And he does put effort and I really dont wanna lose him... its just that certain things that he did hurt me real bad and the problem with me is that I couldnt let go some of these things... I try to distract myself but it comes back and keep tormenting me.. I know that its not completely his fault, i think its happening to me cuz i am too sensitive and i value certain little things so much!. And I thank you all for your replies and corcern!