Stressed because of family’s behaviour

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Stressed because of family’s behaviour

Hello everyone..I am a 15 years old girl and I am madly in love.I recently broke my virginity and I come from a very strict family.They are against dating at a young age.Unfortunately,they found out about my relationship with my boyfriend and things haven't been going well for me lately.I don't live with my mom.She lives in a mental institution because she has schizophrenia.I don't know my dad.I live with my grandma,aunt and 3 other cousins.We are treated unfairly but I don't blame them.I am a burden and I feel miserable.I cry everyday and nobody cares besides my boyfriend.I feel so lonely and I isolate myself now.My family agitates me.

bubblyMuesli8

16 Answers
rkaka
1
Oh! I can only imagine how difficult it must be for you. How have they been treating you after knowing about the relationship.
bubblyMuesli8
They have always treated us unfairly but now it's even worse😭This month on the fifteenth it was my birthday but none of my family members wished me well or called to check up on me💔
euphoricChamois7
3
Every relative is like this ..
euphoricChamois7
2
Try contacting your dad ?
bubblyMuesli8
1
My mom is schizophrenic,evertime I ask her about him she mentions diffrent names
euphoricChamois7
2
Oh ..your situation is complicated ...but don't loose the hope
bubblyMuesli8
Thank you alot😥I really appreciate it
ramveersgh
3
Sorry to hear that... In such a low age you are facing this... I am not sure about ur boyfriend but this age too lower to handle the maturity... I know bits difficult as of now for you but don't took any wrong dicision in frustration.. Does ur boyfriend family know about u?? How much trust u do to ur boyfriend??
bubblyMuesli8
Yes my boyfriends family knows about me and I trust him
ramveersgh
3
I know I sound stupid....but if possible you mat talk to your friend's family about ur situation... Because I believe they are the only one who know u well and may help you..
bubblyMuesli8
What kind of help will I be receiving..My boyfriends family is also against our relationship but they aren't very uptight.I depend on my family.I am an orphan in disguise.Even my cousins treat me bad
ramveersgh
3
Yeah.. I understand that...u need to be strong to handle the situation...and focus on study so that u can earn your self in future and be independent.... That all I can say... I wish for you to have a happy life..
slayer
2
The only choice you have my dear is to stay strong, you have been strong throughout just a little longer dear ..wait for your turn and try having a part time job kind of thing ,having connection , friends so that when time comes you can get out of that situation and people Hope this helps ..just know that some nice people are also in this world...so don't lose hope 🙏i request you...
bubblyMuesli8
1
Thank you so much.I appreciate the advice and I shall do as you say
Hibba
5
Don't lose hope.....be brave 👍✌
bubblyMuesli8
Thank you😊