stressed because of job and family

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stressed because of job and family

Hey there, So i just graduated with a degree, only 21 years old, got a job straight away and i feel like i might burn out. The pay is not great, with all the stuff that i need to pay and meet the demands of people, I barely got to touch my money and now its almost gone. Before going to work today, was told to pick up some stuff on my way home, so i asked for some money but was met with a dirty look and was told that i had my pay, and i cant pay for the simple request. Since graduating, i've felt lost and i just wanted life to stop. When will i actually feel happy?

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Zoya Ahmad
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Hey! Thanks for reaching out. I am sure it must be getting really difficult for you. Have you tried talking to them about how their behavior has been affecting you? What has been happening at office? Have you not been enjoying your work?
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They're traditional and have the thinking of older is always right, so i could never win. With work, i've never had a day off for a month plus now, mentally and physically tired and the pay is not even worth it. I enjoy the work, but i feel like i'm getting nothing
Zoya Ahmad
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I see, are you looking for other jobs? If you can’t change anything about the family try to filter out the negativity, avoid situations that would require you to get into a heated argument with them
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If only it was that easy.. job wise, its not easy to find, esp when you're a fresh graduate. Family wise, can't possibly do that being in one house living with them, i would move up but im barely making and saving up money as it is :(
Zoya Ahmad
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I know it is not easy but you should always keep trying to get into a better situation.
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Anyone know any apps where I can vent privately

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