struggling

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struggling to make peace with the fact that my 2.5 year old relationship with my husband is coming to an end. He has gone away since 4 months without so much of a glance back and i have pinned and died for him a little every single day. After going through each and every detail of our relationship, after apologising for any wrong that i ever did, there is absolutely no positive to look into. he absolutely has no interest in even talking to me. Can someone tell me what i should do? how does one pick up the pieces of one's heart? How does one make peace with the dream that has been shattered into a lot of pieces?

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

What went wrong? Did you try talking to him? Communication is the key..You don't have to give up on your marriage...

CraftKaliedoscope · Answer

doesn't receive call since 1 and half month.

Defeated · Answer

It can be very painful when you are being shut down like that. Also when you do not know went wrong.

CraftKaliedoscope · Answer

yes. I'm not able to wrap my head around the fact that it is that easy to chuck someone out like this?

Defeated · Answer

i can say one thing that since he is not making any effort to mend the relationship. He is definitely at fault somewhere which he is not ready to accept. Maybe he is afraid to ask questions or listen to explainations from your side. I personally feel the sooner you start the process of forgiveness ie forgiving yourself and forgiving that person. You will be more happy. Otherwise u will be stuck thinking about 101 scenarios about what happened and what should have happened with no one to discuss it and no resolutions. I am sorry the relationship did not work out. I had gone through a similar issue and understand you. Be strong and try to move on.

humorousicecream1 · Answer

Think about yourself,what you want in life,focus on your goal,that's the main thing in life, relationship problems takes time to get solved,either you get divorced or patchup it will take time and during this phase you will go through severe stress and depression which will effect your life. For relationship issue my suggestion is to apologise weather it's your fault or not and talk clearly he wants you or he has found another one

crochetchick · Answer

the best solution I can offer as of now is to keep your time fully occupied with something you truly care about..try and focus on your work, take up some volunteering assignment after your day's priorities are done. Pour your heart into a passion or physical exercise...Anything to divert your mind from this situation. And keep at it till time brings more perspective and clarity. Because right now things seem uncertain and trying to analyse further will not give much respite...I went through a similar situation, and the more I analysed it, the deeper I sank into it. Right now this situation is too fresh for you to think clearly... give it time

i am an immature person so don't judge me i am mental patient

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?