Sudden realisation of new feelings

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hi, usually I had lived my life till last year without friends or best friends and being introvert and All..I am currently 27...so initially I had no effect of feeling lonely or something but last year in office I made some good friends although they are in different cities who indirectly showed me how being with friends look like...so I can feel something different that this is how the outer world se but I may have a fear that we have changed companies now and I fear that with time, will this communication fade away or will i be able to maintain it for long...I hope someone will understand what I am trying to convey

cynicalthrush8 · Answer

hi @wakefulcow1

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how old are you

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oh... when did it happened

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ok...if you are comfortable, would you share the reason

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ok...no issue ...so apart from breakup...what about your friends and all?

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oh... somewhere similar to me...so you currently work or study?

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which degree

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ok...good to know...so just a question...if you are introvert like me ..then who approached first in your relationship..means I know even general things are too. difficult for introvert like us

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oh.... unexpected one....that's also good....so you didn't have friends from school time like me ....?...in my case I was close to girls in the class due to which most of the boys used to think that I am not like them....and rest I guess you can understand what words they may have used to address me

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oh...if not same...this I have mentioned in my post.... previously I didn't get effected being lonely but after experiencing how friendships are.... have a kind of fear that being in different cities and different companies...the touch may get lost

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ok...so now how you spend your day...do you travel?

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ok...great...so what's your view on friends and long distance friendships that not made in school or college

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hmm..I get what you are trying to say....you know the talks related to gf bf breakup and all always seemed to be not for me as I never get someone who will share these with me..but those company friend share a little bit of these talks now and then due to which sometimes I kind feel left out as per today generation talks but also what can I do...I can't change my past 🙄

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hmm... may be you are correct... although I wish friendship with these colleagues may last long...let's see and hope you also get your wishes true

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so where are you from

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Same Up ghaziabad

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in up from where

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oh...you know one of those colleague is from gorakhpur only

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would you like to continue to be in communication on fb?

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for future

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oh...you didn't used it anytime?

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ok... maybe we will connect here only then

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good bye

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