You need to understand that they're called superstitions for a reason. They're baseless and have no logic. You need to be practical! Don't pay attention to them and try ignoring them slowly
Recovering_babe
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wanna talk more about it?
deep_thinker
@excited tomatoe7 I know its just myth But all of that comes true in my experience.
deep_thinker
@Recovering babe yeah i wanna talk more about it.
Recovering_babe
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do elaborate the superstitions you are dealing with....
deep_thinker
@Recovering babe There are a lot of things, and you will laugh when you hear some of them. There are even childish superstitions too.
excitedTomatoe7
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Nothing to laugh. Please feel comfortable in sharing. You need to overcome them one by one.
deep_thinker
i will share thanks for the support 🤝 For example, if I go some way, a lot of bad things will happen in my life that day. I have a white jeans and if i go to office wearing it, a lot of bad things happen to me that day. And if I watch cricket match live, my favorite team lose the game.
Recovering_babe
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okay.. nothing to laugh about.. you call it superstition I call it negativity. and it seems that you have been concentrating on the negatives happening... would you care to recall and talk about positive things that happened on all such days?! even the tiniest of them count..
excitedTomatoe7
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Well I also had the last one a few years back! Haha.. but of course it was just an assumption of mine. You know what, some of these which you've mentioned aren't that silly. Our mind is wired to work that way. It believes a certain pattern. Maybe you have experienced something bad with the jeans and now your mind has fixed upon the fact that the jeans brings you bad luck! Don't overthink.. and don't make it a habit to consider everything bad luck!
excitedTomatoe7
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About 5-6 Years back, I was rooting for my fav team in the IPL finals. My entire family was watching, I was sitting in the same room but I didn't look up at the TV even once because I believed my fav team would lose if I saw the match. Guess what, I didn't watch it and they still lost. So all these assumptions mean nothing! It's all in our head!! You have nothing to worry about :)
deep_thinker
@Recovering babe Nothing positive happens in life. 🙁
deep_thinker
@excited tometoe7 This has been going on for so many years .I'm trying to control it but after a while it comes back with full strength again.
excitedTomatoe7
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You need to get over it one by one. Like I said, these assumptions don't really make sense! So you need to understand that they won't bring you bad luck. Pick out the good things that happen on that day and focus on them instead
