suspiciousness towards partner

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I am always thinking of the worst things that my boyfriend could do and then I react prior to that and that has been causing tension and arguments which are really uneccessary...I always feel like he is lying and cheating ,I really do not know if its my gut feeling or I am just overthinking things out of fear

Dee

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Zoya Ahmad
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Hey! Thanks for reaching out. This must have a created a lot of tension between you and your partner. Why don’t you talk to him about this, about how you feel. Try to solve the issue talk about how you both want to work this out.
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Dee
he has recomended that I should seek professional help
Dee
because I always project my past traumous on him and I do not seem to improve
Zoya Ahmad
You have had any bitter experiences?
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Dee
yes..all of my past relationships were bitter
Zoya Ahmad
I see, this justifies your suspiciousness. Not everyone is same you know that right? I think you should give yourself a chance. Don’t be so harsh on yourself or on him.
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Dee
I always try to be calm but then I just loose control over my emotions and bash him ..then I regret everything after
Zoya Ahmad
Let’s connect over a session to have detailed understanding of the situation you are going through.
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Dee
okay how can we get that done
Zoya Ahmad
You can book an appointment from here itself.
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Dee
is it a physical session
Zoya Ahmad
It will be on call.
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Dee
video call or phone call
Zoya Ahmad
Phone call
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Dee
you will be doing the call
Zoya Ahmad
Yes, i will give you a call.
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jayanthi
please help me also I too have a similar problem😭