This is all about romance and I need advice. It's a little long
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Me (14F) have had sexuality issues since the 6th grade. It all started when I saw this girl (14F) and I really liked her. We started talking and I kept falling for her. Fast Forward 3 years. In 8th grade she tells me she liked me in the 6th grade. I told her I liked her too. Fast Forward 1 year to now I'm in the 9th grade and I've asked her to be my girlfriend but she says she has to think about it. She then talks to me about the boys she likes. But still tells me that she thinks I'm cute. In this year I made a friend (14M). I call him my husband and we've grown to be best friends. But now I have feelings for him. Although he still has feelings for his ex. I don't want to create a whole issue based on the fact his ex was jealous of me. We're all trying to be friends but I know there's heart feelings there. I don't know if he likes me back since he sends me mixed signals. So could you guys give me some advice on what I should do?

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