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this is my second post first was not that much helpful or supporting by others

this is my second post from tomorrow my exams are starting and the first post of mine i was posted because of an hope that may be I'll get any help from this platform through experts but I'm so afraid I'm really not happy in this relationship but i love him I just want to be happy and keep him happy but don't know why every little things bother him a lot even he is my priority he knows that but still he forgrant me most of the time and that bothers me so deep. i don't know how to manage my own mental health i observe this all time that I'm going deeper and deeper into it , i need help for my health i want to be like him a careless who love that person but his behaviour to you doesn't affect you lot so that you can't even breath

shan_2213

7 Answers
boastfulshads7
Same situation 😭
shan_2213
where's the solution
shan_2213
I'm just sooooooooo tired of all this why it's only me who got hurt even when he lovee there's not one sided love... yes! but here it's like one sided efforts from my side
shan_2213
all the spark his intrest of talking spending time and other activities are gone somewhere don't know why,when and how
emptytacos1
Depending too much on a person is neither good for you or him/her.Taking the responsibility of keeping you happing all the time is too big responsibility!! Think this way. He can not be doing what you expect him to do all the time. Also have your own life and let him be just an addition to your life and not your life. Although please don't mix this with red flags.
shan_2213
i can let him do whatever he want and try to conserve my self but he will never accept it happily that i can do anything by self in starting it was my concern that i use to tell him everything now the scenarios are like we can't do actually couldn't do anything without telling about that , and as he is boy I'm a girl I have to take permission for each and every things., in that situation it suffocat when he behaves disappointing
emptytacos1
Why you need permissions??? Who is he to give you permissions?You are a complete individual in yourself who can do whatever you want. Basic care and worries can be there. But you can't be held for interrogation on each and everything you do. Else it will be toxic. Such a relation is not good. Even if he is dominating, you need to set your own boundaries.