I am being emotionally dependent on a guy. I expect his text & calls in morning, at night. I check phone 100 times a day if its him. On the other hand, he talks to me only once in 4-6 days, for like 2-3 min. Thats so bare minimum. He is draining me emotionally, i cant eat, sleep, work properly. He is not even breaking up, he loves me. He is loyaI, that i am sure about. But still is this okay.. ? Are such relationships healthy.. ? We are @30 and need to settle down. Do I need to get a life for myself and be like him.. ? Or force him to talk with me.. ? PS. he is not available even to discuss this.