Tips to be emotionally in-dependent pls ??

Question

I am being emotionally dependent on a guy. I expect his text & calls in morning, at night. I check phone 100 times a day if its him. On the other hand, he talks to me only once in 4-6 days, for like 2-3 min. Thats so bare minimum. He is draining me emotionally, i cant eat, sleep, work properly. He is not even breaking up, he loves me. He is loyaI, that i am sure about. But still is this okay.. ? Are such relationships healthy.. ? We are @30 and need to settle down. Do I need to get a life for myself and be like him.. ? Or force him to talk with me.. ? PS. he is not available even to discuss this.

starlette · Answer

hey , sweetheart this is not okay. and this not a sign of healthy relationship. A guy who loves you would check on on you everyday even if its for a short amount of time unless he is going through some serious mental health issues. i would like to suggest you to take some time for yourself. let youself to be independent. i know it is not easy. things are never easy. but we learn to make our eay through it. just give yourself time to independent, try going 10 hours  without him, then try 1 day and then slowly try to increase the amount of time. if you feel like talking, talk to a friend or just come here. just remember tht some one who loves you isnt supposed to drain u. and do talk to him whn u get an opportunity

Heretofeelbetter · Answer

I did tell him this one time recently. he says he is too busy with higher studies and submissions. but even then he should talk to me for few min. but he says you are never happy with few min, you always want more. under this excuse, he has just stopped calling me totally. Also its long distance, we don't even meet.

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