Hi. Thankyou for reaching out. I understand your discomfort with your parents. Try to tell them genuine how you feel when they pose restrictions on you false blame you. Tell how you are getting disturbed. And ask them to trust you when you go out. You can also write a big letter for them or email them separately. Mention all your feelings, helplessness,fear everything.

Hi, there's no easy answer for this. Unfortunately our society is extremely patriarchal. This is not however, your brother's fault unless he perpetuates this behaviour himself and looks down upon you as a result. The restriction on activities inhibits our growth and forces us to resort to lies for the simplest of things in order to avoid suspicion. I completely sympathize with your predicament. Anger is understandable but holding grudges takes up a lot of lot of energy that can be otherwise directed towards building your career. Being financially independent is especially important for women with conservative families and provide a way out of the oppression. You can also try talking reasonably with your family but go into it with a clear mind and without resentment - speaking angrily is not going to help when you're trying to make a case for yourself that goes against their value system. All the best