Sorry to hear of your mother’s loss as it must be tough on you. However, you need to do things which would make her happy and proud looking up from the sky. About your father, you need to have a conversation with him and tell him how it’s impacting you. Tc and keep me updated 😊
We had many family meetings with him he promises to change but it's like we are wiring him to be worse. I am staying with him at the same house I feel like I can just move out everytime I see him I just see an evil parent who doesn't love his children and feel for them.
I am sure he ain’t a evil parent. What are your options if you don’t want to live with him?
I feel like he is just doing things intentionally so better I move to rentals. Now my sister and brother are not coming home anymore because they feel his behavior is not right so I am the only who is with him but hey he does not change
Can you ask for help from your siblings, in order to support you initially because this is the first time you will be moving out.
Last month when we had a family meeting my uncles and aunt together with my siblings said I should not move out my father must change his behavior or he must be the one who moves out. So the house is a family trust that was build by my father then changed to family trust before my mother passed away due to his unacceptable behavior. So I feel like I will end up have the same stress as my mother because he does not want to change that's why I took a decision to move out