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Umm, hi everyone I am so traumatized. It's been 2 years and i can't hold it in anymore. I was sexually assaulted by my "friend" while we were watching a movie and i froze i couldn't move and i couldn't think anything i was in my denial phase in 2020 but i woke up in 2021 and realized what happened to me. Now i am just so messed up i have been suffering from anxiety since forever and this event just magnified everything and now i have trust issues and so many issues i can't even begin to list them also i had bunked school to meet my boyfriend and he didn't let me meet my boyfriend and assaulted me the next day i was caught and suspended and my dad beat me isolated me from everything i was in a mental and physical lockdown and I am still suffering from what happened assaulted for a hour then beaten and locked for a month. How does someone move on from that?

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excitedTomatoe7
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Damn, is there any way you can confront that 'friend' of yours and let it all out? I hope you've cut off from them completely though because it looks like a toxic space to be in. The only solution is to talk about it, let it all out, and then focus on better things and try to distract yourself from the traumatic past. You can do something that you love and start hanging out with not so toxic friends. It might take months to move on from the past but one day you'll be there. You just need to hang in there and believe in your mental strength
traumatized
@excitedTomatoe7 i cut him off after getting caught and he isn't leaving me alone he creates fake ids of me and then sends the pictures he took of me to all my friends but then i told my father about fake ids so i think he took care of it and i also told my bf and he talked to him and deleted all my photos chats and stuff from his phone
Zoya Ahmad
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Hey! Thanks for reaching out. I am sure it must be really difficult for you. This is very traumatising. It takes a lot of courage to be talking about it. But since it has been 2 years, you should now move ahead in life and don’t blame yourself for anything.
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ferventFlamingo1
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I'm stunned , child like you have gone through so many things , I don't know what to say and I can't just ignore after reading this , I totally understand you , I have gone through similar problem like this , Im still in that problem , I can relate you , I hope everything goes good for you

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