Trust issue

Question

I met a guy online  over a year and half ago and he was planning for us to get married but things got to much complicated lately he couldn't trust me anymore qnd believes I cheat on him just because  someone liked me on instagram or followed me on twitter he even forced me to give him my passwords and found only two chat before I knew him like 3 years ago he wasn't even existing in my life and the chats consisted of dead conversations thT happened with each only one time response I hate myself he calls me a cheater qnd a liar I feel he's toxic and went on my nerves and my studies ever since are deteriorated and has no motivation to it because he's wrecking my nerves and I couldn't leave him because I have been in a relationship before I hardly could please anyone since I am average looking

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

hey, I totally understand what you're going through. The best thing to do would be to let go and move on. Why are you underestimating yourself and compromising? Anybody who loves you would never judge you based on your looks or label you as an average. Keep that in mind and make yourself a priority. once you get married to this person, there's no way out. things are only gonna get worse. And there won't be anything for you to do. Is this how you imagine your future? being called a cheat and a liar? You deserve the best, sis. Believe in yourself. You'll find someone worthy of your time and love 😊

shada · Answer

@excitedTomatoe7 you know this relationship was great at the beginning I long for the beginnings he valued me now he treats me like a trash and justify never things could get back as the beginnings because he blames me I am a cheat and a liar plus I know deep down he doesn't love me I don't why then he make to stick with him and at the meantime he doesn't call me by any good words like honey or so I told him let's be friends  he said I couldn't and now I don't know what he wants from me and the moment I say I will leave he says is that your last decision making me feel I am guilty because he delivers to me the feelings that I am not serious enough for this relationship and it wasn't his fault!!! I am confused does he wants me or not

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

At this point, it would be better for you to accept the harsh truth. Maybe he is using you? He probably knows you can't leave him. Don't let him guilt you into staying in this toxic relationship. I've had similar experiences. Right now, although you feel like you crave the beginnings, those days may not be back. If he valued you, would he hurt you? This is a toxic relationship and he is a toxic guy. The sooner you are out, the better it is for you. Get out of this, have a fresh start, focus on what you love, focus on yourself. It'll take time to move on, but ultimately you'll realise you took the right decision

umasingh · Answer

leave that guy. don't think about him. cut him off. take a 1 or 2 month break. give time to yourself. because my dear🌸, life is too short to be with someone who doesn't make your whole body sing with happiness✨✨.

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