trust issues in a relationship

Question

My girlfriend has had sex with other guy before our relationship. I feel very attached to her but this truth hurts me so much that I cannot even express.. I don't know what to do and I don't know if we'll have a fruitful future. I need help to know what to be done in such case. I'm tired of thinking.

hashbrown · Answer

Wel bro you have to respect her honesty and the fact that she is giving it a good try to work this out with you . You can’t undo her past but what you can do is start a fresh with her :). That’s whT you should do

solidDingo8 · Answer

I'm trying my best to forget it all and start a fresh start with her but my mind just not able to accept it. I want her so much but this one thing I feel is going to ruin us and our Relationship.

hashbrown · Answer

See it can be anyone and think of it from her stand point WhT if this was you. Isn’t it wrong ? I think if you guys want to be with one another then this shouldn’t bother you as I see it’s a small thing

solidDingo8 · Answer

yes you are right but somewhere or the other I get a strong feeling of cheating on her and having intercourse with another girl to make it even. I know it sounds juvenile but it's such a strong feeling that keeps popping every now and then. Anyways thanks mate.You've been a great help.

hashbrown · Answer

If you love her and want to be with her then you won’t do it. It’s a strong feeling but try ignoring it for her as I feel she has been honest with you and is giving g her all for it to work . Tc and keep me updated :)

solidDingo8 · Answer

sure. Thanks mate.

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?