Unable to accept break up

Question

My girlfriend left me we had a 4 years of relationship...but she left me saying i was not there when she needed me the most..but i think i was always there for her..only for one time when..her mother was in death bed i was not there wid her...i dont know what to do...she just left me .i am not being able to accept it

giddyPretzels2 · Answer

Why weren't you there?

arjits · Answer

I was angry with her ...so i left her alone..there.

arjits · Answer

I think i deserve this ..but..i am not able to move past this

arjits · Answer

So much guilt is there.and now fear as well

giddyPretzels2 · Answer

Dude that's your fault. What made you so angry?

giddyPretzels2 · Answer

But why were you so angry?

arjits · Answer

I thought she was cheating on..me ....she keep on talking on her phone those days and she keeps on delaying our marriage date ..so I thought she is not interested and i was angry at that point of time

giddyPretzels2 · Answer

Do you want to marry her?

arjits · Answer

Yes ..i so want to..but she already left me

giddyPretzels2 · Answer

Make her believe that you love her. Do anything.

giddyPretzels2 · Answer

Tell her that you will always keep her happy and never leave her alone no matter what

arjits · Answer

She blocked me from everywhere...i dont know what to do or say...what action shouldi perform to make her believe..its tool late

arjits · Answer

I already told her ..she said she doesnt trust me

giddyPretzels2 · Answer

Call from your friends' phone. How much time has it been since you guys broke up

arjits · Answer

Its been 3 months

arjits · Answer

I dont know what is right or what is wrong maybe ....going after her will only make mess out of this situation

giddyPretzels2 · Answer

Omg. I think it's late. But if she loved you too then she'll surely forgive you.

arjits · Answer

Dont know buddy ..its doesnt seem right now to go after her..doing all those things .

giddyPretzels2 · Answer

I wish my boyfriend was like you. He don't value me at all

giddyPretzels2 · Answer

Infact he broke up with me today saying that i was controlling his life. I don't know whether he will come back or not.

arjits · Answer

I love her alot...alot alot ..but she doesnt believe...people work all things out if they love eachother..

arjits · Answer

Thank you so much dear.

pluckyUnicorn8 · Answer

Just make her believe that you have realized your mistakes and hence forth no matter what you will be there for her....As her wellwisher or good friend

arjits · Answer

Why should i be the one making ...all the sacrifices...she knew i will be there for her......these all things just make myself feel weak

arjits · Answer

I dont understand why always guys need to make scarifice in relationship...and even doing all of things ..u just feel like a failure

arjits · Answer

GIRLS dont care ....u did 100s of things and u fail doong one things they will just mark it as an excuse and throw u out of there lives..... love sucks really....its not love its just need if u r fulfilling the need its ok if not u will thrown out of peoples lives ..fucking crazy ..life

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Delayed grief and depression