If you wantto get a closure, first try to get in touch with him tokow what exactly happened. If he doesn't want to be with you,you cant force them. But try to know what happened
Artisticgamechanger
i tried. he is not ready to listen or talk about that topic at all. if anything now he has started to avoid all sort of conversations as well. It was one hell of a month and it is becoming more difficult with time.
Artisticgamechanger
what is confusing is that everything was fine. he was talking to me nicely, and even were connceted for the past few months, and all of a sudden this breakup. even after this, we were taling and were normal. then he stopped talking to me all of a sudden.
Sunshineme
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If he is not ready to even talk then leave it. I know its going to be dofficult for you but its better this way. Try to divert your mind in ur family and friends
hansa_shaunik
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Hi! Thank you for reaching out. Break ups are painful. There is no easy way to put it...but it's important that you allow yourself time to grieve.
Closures aren't always possible. Try to understand what aspects were not working out in the relationship and aim to move on.
There is no way but through the pain. The longer the time passes, the easier it will get. Try to do these things to help you move on.
1. Surround yourself with loved ones.
2. Focus on defining your goals and work toward them.
3. Allow yourself to feel sad. Don't be hard on yourself. Give yourself the permission to cry. The less you resist this, the less often it'll happen.
4. Avoid trying to get in touch with him even if as friends. It will be harder to move on if he is in your life. Cut the cord.
Take care. I hope this helps.
Stay strong
