My girlfriend broke up with me cuz she felt insecure that I'd leave her. She thought breaking up now is better than later. Well, this was my first relationship and hers to. The worst part is that the relationship was only for a month. It's been 9months and I'm still not able get over the thought that she thought I'd leave her and she broke up with me. She said I should move on as she already did. I'm just stuck in this hole where I know staying is not a good thing. But I'm just too scared that I'll fall over a larger pit if I come out of it.