Hi cartoon. It's seems like you have been placed in a tough position. I can try giving him some space so that he has time to think on what he is heading towards. Till then try to keep yourself occupied with some other work. Also can you share at what point he asks for break up? Is there any particular topic after which he asks for break?

He never sticks to one reason, he says a different reason every time. 1. I am getting marriage so my parents won't accept our love. 2. I don't want you to suffer, you hav bright future don't waste it for me. 3. I need both family and you. He drastically changed his answers. I have no idea what is running in his mind.

Cartoon you can try having a genuine conversation with him where you both talk regarding your future. As he mentioned he need both you and family And what could be done to solve the problem. Try brainstorming the solutions.cartoon I would invite you to ask yourself on what you want in your life? And are you willing to head with him in future?

I have tried it many times but he is not clear. Sometimes he says I will marry you and sometimes he says I don't wanna marry you. The main problem of forgetting is they stay in front of our house. So, I see him everyday then how can I forget everything that happened between us. And I am willing to head with him future but sometimes his answers makes me doubt on him that what if he leaves me after marriage. He asks me to intimate first but I don't want to do that before marriage, if I say no to this he says breakup. This is what is happening for one year. He goes and he comes I am.unable to understand anything

Can you please reply.

Cartoon I understand you are a in a fix, and this morning ght be frustrating it would be great if you analyse your relationship and ask yourself if your time, efforts invested is worth or not. are you achieving what you are seeking? Are your emotional needs being met by the person? Analyse these questions and make a informed decision. If you face problem during the process you make take one on one session with an expert who can give you directions on how to go about it.