unable to cope with a break up

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I'm having a relationship issues Right now with my boyfriend...we have been dating for 5 years now .. their were lots of ups and downs we have faced. Mostly importantly his family is against our relationship but however till today he supported me but This time we had a heated arguments on which I said lots of mean words to him and on the next day he said he wants to break up as he doesn't see any good ending in the future. I was devastated after hearing those words and I give a deep thoughts and I realized that Everytime we argue over something I am the one who says mean words to him. Now I'm in a position where I am unable to convince him and get back together with him.please help me what I should do to get him back and start our old Love spark again

Na92

5 Answers
Sahitya MG
Hi . I am sorry to hear this. Accepting one own mistakes takes courage. You may look on to having a conversation with him where you express your feelings and accept your mistakes. And give him some space to think about it. This will help you from being hard on yourself. And move forward.
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Na92
I love him So will it be ok to approach him and express my feelings or how I feel?
Na92
Do you see any chance of us getting back Together?
Sahitya MG
Na. Try expressing how you feel about the whole situation and accepting your mistakes . This is for you feel better as you might have tried to make amendments to keep the relationship together. But again efforts have to be from both the sides in order to keep the relationship going. And we can't control other persons feeling for us. All we can do is try to express how open you are to make things work between you two. Rest is up to them weather to accept or not.
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Nature of all the advices provided on this platform including Expert’s are for general information only because complete detailed clinical work up of individual not done. These advices in their all aspects are not substitute for Professional Medical Consultation and are not valid for MLC (Medico-Legal cases). All individuals are advised to consult nearest specialists.
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Na92
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