Relationship in friends can sometimes spoil the relationship and also friendship. We often thiink that by sacrificing we can show someone how much we love them. But in reality its not true. In order for someone to love us, we should love us first and keep ourself on priority. Thats when they can see that how cnfident we are I know it must be hurting that this ended and you cant stop thinking about him. Its the hurting phase we all have been there. But it will get better. Focus of yourself for now. Make yoou the most important person for you.

you are right ......i have realised that in order to make him feel my love , i had started neglecting my own happiness....which was my biggest mistake. anyways .... lessons like in life are neccesary to grow as an individual. i will now try to focus on my self and be concious about my happiness rather than someone else's.

Good that you are aware. Best of luck for your future and I am here if you ever need me

thankyou so much :)

Hi! I'm sorry to hear this. Breakups are painful! There is no escaping the pain of it. Try to give yourself time to grieve and feel sad. It's normal. So give yourself some time. As you begin the process of healing, please dont let it break your self worth. Try to focus on building youself up. Try to take this time to understand yourself better.

Thankyou so much ma'am. yes i have started the healing process ,but the onlu thing which is stuck in my mind and making me more anxious is that he thinks he took the right step . according to him ....i was wrong , i hurt him ....and in order to maintain his inner peice he left me . he has no regret of whar he has done . neither did he cared to ask since 2 months if i am okay or not . what kind of love it was if can leave me like this . i have been through heart break earlier also , so i know it is not permanent ...things will be better one day ....but at present it is really hurting so much . if i was at his place .....i would have never done this to him .

it hurts me to see him happily living his life without me while i am still struggling to live a normal life.....even my sleep cycle is disturbed . and he is so happy as if i was nothing for me.....this makes me feel so worthless ....that after giving so much love to someone i couldnt even make him cry for losing me.

Dear, I felt very bad reading Ur bad experience.... one thing I wanna say that is .... just don't lose hope as this lesson has made u much stronger to choose to trust anyone in future. Don't loose faith in yourself at all. And u r not worthless at all. I definitely hope that he will cry and feel pity for this descion...... in future when he will miss your love. Now due to his act of selfishness..... KARMA as nature will reward him at its best. Just Trust The Process. And start loving yourself first over anyone. And Just try to channelise your emotions and energy into something positive that u love.

Means a lot ....thankyou so much :)

If I may ask, does his ability to move on meake you question your value/worth?

yes it does ........even after doing so much for that person he didnt see my love for him......and left me for some of my mistakes .....for which he had already forgiven me 6 months ago.. it feels he has just used those mistakes as an excuse to leave me. i know i gave my 100%, i know he didnt deserve my love ......still i am not able to forgive myself for those mistakes ..... it is obvious that if would have not made those mistakes he still would have left me .....but i dont know why i am not able to love myself completely . he ditched me.....still he says to my friends that does not feel guilty at all....and never misses me. and me......after giving my level best for that person ....is not able to be self satisfied .. i dont know what to feel......this incident has made me question my self worth.

waiting for some suggestion.....